Blood is thicker than water. How does that statement apply to custody and divorce. It applies to mean that families stick together. Don't count on in-laws or your spouses friends and family to be on your side. After doing this work for 23 years, rarely have I ever seen a spouses family member or friend ever testify against their own blood relative or friend.
The moral of the story is "Don't count on your spouses family to help you". You could be the greatest son-in-law or daughter-in-law in the world, but the minute you file for divorce or want more time with your son or daughter, it's likely they will no longer be on your side. The rare exception is when a child has a drug, alcohol or abuse problem that is really serious. On those occasions, sometimes a grandmother or grandfather will help you only to protect their grandchildren.
It makes sense. Blood is thicker than water. Your parents and relatives can't divorce you. Thus, if everything is as planned, they will be there for you if you need them, regardless of your past history. All you have to do is ask.
Ed Murphy
www.murphy-law-group.com
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